W34 黏

薑醬從一開始扶著站的時候會內八成一直線,並且搖搖晃晃,到現在扶著站以後會跨一兩步調整也才短短一個禮拜。我知道我已經跳針很多次了但小孩子的成長真的是飛快啊~ 但是還有進步空間啦。他現在站起來以後好像不太知道怎麼下來所以有時站久了就會開始哭XD。不過也因為他現在會站了,所以晚上要哭都會爬起來站在那邊對著我們哭,而這種時候還真不是塞奶嘴就可以解決的,通常都要抱一下…

說到睡覺啊,這一整週,從上週五還六吧?就開始持續一整個禮拜,薑醬每天晚上起來四到五次爆哭。平常大概都是會起來一到兩次,塞個奶嘴或者閃妞餵個奶就好了。但這週真的是,不知道怎麼了,爆哭!超大聲超悲慘,然後塞奶嘴沒用!一定要抱抱或餵奶。前晚甚至有次哭到餵奶都不要,最後是一直抱著走來走去還到客廳開燈才停止哭泣。嬰兒真的是很難懂啊~ 我跟閃妞這週也都累死了。我們平常大概十二點睡到六點半吧,中間再起來個四到五次,你看我們的睡眠品質能有多好?但也是這樣熬過來了。昨天在無計可施的情況下給他洗了個艾草澡,似乎晚上有好睡點,今天再看看情況吧!

前兩週開始吧,薑醬一直說巴巴巴巴巴巴巴巴巴,我就當他在叫我了😄 雖然理智上知道他還沒啊。不過這週他又不太講話了。有時真的想知道薑醬在想什麼耶!

小朋友的認知能力有點好笑。有時薑醬想要跟我們搶手機或平板,但我們不想給他,就可以在他面前把東西拿棉被蓋起來,然後他就會完全認為手機就消失了,直接放棄,也不會去翻去找,就轉頭去找別的東西玩,屢試不爽。好像是這時期還沒有object permanence,所以只要不在視線範圍內的東西都是不存在的。很有趣耶!

這週也把客廳的傢俱位置稍微移動一下,並且買了柵欄來限制薑醬的移動範圍。薑醬現在好奇心旺盛,很愛到處爬 (而且還會一手拿著玩具到處晃)。雖然我們希望不要一直限制他,但是當他要爬去玄關咬鞋子,或者爬到廁所啃地墊,或者爬到廚房舔垃圾桶,我們都還是會阻止他。久了其實要一直追他也很累,所以索性將他的移動範圍縮小,比較好抓也不會那麼緊張。至少現在範圍內只有電腦椅的輪子我們比較不希望他去吃,其他都還好。電線擦過了就給他吸吧,櫃子擦過了就給他啃吧!但這小孩還是不喜歡被人限制。如果沒有人在柵欄內陪他,他就會爬到柵欄邊然後抓著柵欄站起來抗議!但是如果我在柵欄內陪他其實他也不一定會理我,就自己玩自己的這樣。但是喔,如果我拿出書來要看,他又要爬過來吃我的書,所以老爸陪玩的時候還是沒辦法做自己的事啊~ (只好專心陪玩了)

薑醬最近有個新的癖好,就是要爬到我們腿上去。我常常盤坐在地墊上陪薑醬玩玩具,而他就會趁這時候爬到我的腿上,然後也沒有要幹麻喔,就是手要巴著,不然就肚子要貼著,然後他也許會玩自己的玩具,或者就是在我腿上看起來很掙扎地看著他的玩具 (但就是不過去)。總之就是越來越黏人了啦!

6 thoughts on “W34 黏

  1. 艾草澡真是煩瑣呀~
    不過似乎見效?

    BTW,爸比你可以看看皮亞傑的理論~
    兒子現在處在『感覺動作期』對物體是恆存性(守恆)的概念喔~~要到七歲左右才有可逆性啦!

    (什麼時候才會媽媽媽啊~吃醋)
    不過他哭不停時候,阿木唱歌就會乖乖撒嬌睡覺~感覺很好啊~~~~

  2. 我家這隻最近的新嗜好是一直爬去抓貓咪的尾巴,她應該是想交朋友但貓會北送… 我每兩分鐘就要衝過去阻止一次… 苦惱啊 ~_~

      • 我女兒每次逮到機會抓到貓尾巴就往嘴裡放,或是去舔貓咪的後腳趾(very specific, I know…但後腳是所有貓的大忌啊),只能說初生之犢不畏虎!幸好我們家的貓總是冷靜地起身離開現場不跟嬰兒計較… 整個表現超成熟!

  3. Every kid’s different, but here’s what I got:

    Ben woke up screaming and crying very often, and never slept through the night, until he was weaned from milk (due to Dez being too sick from being pregnant with Corey), which was about 1.5 yrs of age.

    Corey didn’t wake up screaming but he did need to feed every few hours, until he was weaned from milk (due to Dez being too sick from being pregnant with Calvin), which was also about 1.5 yrs of age.

    Calvin also needed to feed every few hours and would get violent to get to the boob. I got sick of Dez complaining about not sleeping well so now he sleeps with me and his 2 brothers and not his mom. So Dez sleeps by herself. He was just past 1 year old. He’s still not weaned because Dez thinks if he wants it, he can have it until he’s 2.

    None of the kids would take a fake nipple. They only want the real thing. But at least Calvin *can* drink from a bottle. The other kids never would.

    I still wake up in the middle of the night a few times a week. 3 kids. Y’know. Probability is high that one of them would have some sort of issue one or two times a week. But that’s my new “normal” now so I don’t even notice it anymore… As in, it’s not even worth complaining and I often forget that I woke up.😀

    ps: Those scented baths may help, but it didn’t work for long term for us. There’re also these bracelets and necklaces and whatnot. I don’t think they worked well for us either.

    • It sounds like from your experience, you can forcibly wean them from their mother’s milk (in your case, the circumstances dictated the timing). So what is the last thing they eat before they go to bed if they ended up sleeping through the night once weaned?

      I think we’re lucky that at least Tony would take a pacifier, so we don’t have to get creative trying to calm him. Very seldom does he throws tantrums that we can’t placate.

      I still wake up like twice every night. The first month that we got back from the 月子中心 I was really fatigued all the time. Now I think I’ve gotten used to being slightly sleep-deprived on a regular basis. I think it just takes the body a bit of time to hit equilibrium after every new change in the routine.

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